Why dating feels like a vertigo-inducing philosophical crisis
In short: Dating often feels chaotic and anxiety-ridden, but these emotions might actually be profound philosophical experiences. This video explores how Jean-Paul Sartre’s existentialism provides a framework to understand the weight of our romantic choices.
The video examines how the 'dating ritual' mirrors core existentialist concepts, specifically those championed by Jean-Paul Sartre. It argues that the anxiety and excitement we feel when meeting others are not just social awkwardness but reflections of our radical freedom to define ourselves.
Central to this is the principle that "Being precedes essence." This means our existence comes first, and we are free to choose who we become through our actions—our jobs, lifestyles, and self-conceptions. In contrast, 'essence' refers to things beyond our control, such as biology or history. By applying this, dating becomes a process of choosing how to navigate the world alongside another person.
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