Why seeking out 'no' is the ultimate path to 'yes'
In short: Jia Jiang spent 100 days intentionally seeking out rejection to dismantle the fear of social shame. This video explores how desensitizing yourself to the word 'no' can unlock unexpected opportunities and change how you interact with the world.
Jiang conducted a social experiment by requesting increasingly bold favors from strangers, ranging from asking for a "burger refill" at a restaurant to borrowing $100 from a complete stranger. The goal was to confront the visceral pain and embarrassment typically associated with being turned down.
The experiment revealed that the fear of rejection often acts as a barrier to possibility. By systematically facing these moments, Jiang discovered that the act of simply asking for what you want can lead to outcomes that defy expectations, turning potential dead ends into new avenues.
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- Summary by Intellect · source: What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection | Jia Jiang | TED
- Also: What I learned from 100 days of rejection - Jia Jiang
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