How sharing your deepest isolation can build an unexpected community

Jonny Sun: You are not alone in your loneliness · 12:17 · Video: TED · Watch at the source

In short: Loneliness often feels like being an alien stranded on a distant, solitary planet. But for writer and artist Jonny Sun, the path to connection wasn't through hiding his fear, but through the radical act of being vulnerable and telling stories about feeling like an outsider.

For many, the experience of loneliness is profoundly isolating, a sensation Jonny Sun describes as being an alien alone in the universe. This sense of being an outsider can feel insurmountable, yet Sun’s experience suggests that the very emotions that drive us into isolation might also serve as the bridge to others. This process of finding light in the darkness is central to his approach to storytelling.

By utilizing his signature illustrations and writing to be open about his sadness, fear, and loneliness, Sun discovered that vulnerability acts as a catalyst for connection. When he began sharing these feelings online, he did not find further isolation; instead, he tapped into an unexpected community of people experiencing precisely the same struggles. This connection was forged through the digital landscape, specifically through his presence on social media platforms.

Sun’s work explores the intersection of digital spaces and human emotion. As a researcher at the Harvard metaLAB and a doctoral candidate at MIT, he studies how social media and virtual places function as sites for online community. His background is remarkably multidisciplinary, having studied architecture at Yale and engineering at the University of Toronto. His diverse studies also encompass a period of training as an engineer.

His ability to translate complex, heavy emotions into accessible art has led to significant recognition. He has authored works such as 'Everyone's A Aliebn When Ur A Aliebn Too' and contributed to the New York Times best-selling 'Gmorning, Gnight!' by Lin-Manuel Miranda. In 2017, TIME Magazine recognized his digital impact by naming him one of the 25 most influential people on the internet. His theatrical productions have been staged at various venues, including the Yale School of Drama and the Factory Theater in Toronto. Furthermore, his visual art has been displayed at institutions such as the MIT galleries and the Wing Luke Museum in Seattle.

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